A High Conflict Divorce Coach (HCDC) is your strategic partner. You are no longer in the trenches alone when you enlist a HCDC as your trusted team member.

When your narcissistic ex bombards you with messages, you may feel powerless to the fear and frustration. One of the most terrifying and frustrating forms of post separation abuse is stalking and harassment. High conflict and narcissistic individuals often use every means available to them to induce fear in the victim.

The majority of victims experience financial abuse at the hands of the narcissist. In and out of the intimate relationship, financial abuse is a demeaning, stressful, and controlling tactic that abusers use to keep victims feeling depleted and powerless.

If you’re wondering if you’re a good candidate for our program, you’re in the right spot! Maybe you fought on the battlefield alone, and never want another survivor to have that experience.

Narcissistic abusers use legal threats to intimidate and harass victims. But are the threats valid? Often, victims experience post separation abuse in the form of legal threats.

If you’re divorcing a narcissist, your mental health must be prioritized. The effects of post separation abuse can have profound effects on a survivor’s mental health.

When it comes to divorcing a narcissist, radical acceptance is key. One aspect of radical acceptance is that your financial situation is likely to change.

Family court systems are designed to make victims feel like they’re doing everything wrong. So let’s take a minute to set the record straight.

Whether you’re on the way out or you’ve been journeying solo, now is the time to build your support team with the right people.

When you’re divorcing a narcissist, it’s important to understand three universal truths that may help you better prepare for the realities of a high conflict divorce.

Certified High Conflict Divorce Coaches are trained to help you profile the narcissist so that you can better predict and prepare for oncoming attacks.

A High Conflict Divorce Coach can help you gain clarity, confidence, and peace as you gently and firmly move forward with your decisions.

When you’re ready to dig into advocacy work, it’s important to understand that high conflict divorce coaching can be one-on-one advocacy that truly changes lives.

When you’re at the end of your rope and desperately need support in your high conflict divorce or child custody battle, consider this resource for victims of narcissistic abuse.

If you’re currently on the high conflict divorce battlefield, please take a moment today to care for yourself. The role of compassion for self while divorcing a narcissist cannot be overstated.

When you’re divorcing a narcissist, it’s essential to develop an attitude of radical acceptance. This individual is who they are. They’re not likely to make any huge changes.

Finding a divorce coach in your area is actually really simple. We have the Certified High Conflict Divorce Coaches listed on our website, and have a quick and easy search function on the bottom of the coach database.

Emotionally, yes, but let’s be clear. I was literally broke for a long time. Not a penny to my name, no access to accounts, drowning in debt - if you’re here, this is all-too familiar.

Curious to learn more about becoming a high conflict divorce coach?In celebration of our program’s growth and alumni achievements, we’re providing an overview of the program and coursework, success stories from our graduates – including their personal wins and legislative advocacy – along with program information for 2024 and 2025.

This week, meet Tammy Adcock: a recent graduate of the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program (HCDCCP), and the sixth featured coach in our HCDC blog series.