What Do I Do When My Narcissistic Ex Violates Court Orders Without Consequence?
When the narcissist is violating court orders, and no one seems to be able to help, high conflict divorce and custody strategy needs to come in to play.
You’re stuck between a rock and a hard place (to put it lightly).
The court orders are clear. There is absolutely no excuse for the narcissist to violate them - and yet over and over again there are clear violations.
And every time you try to get someone - anyone - to hold the narcissist accountable so that the violations will stop - nothing happens. And the narcissist just gets more confident and the feelings of invincibility grow.
Sound familiar?
Document the Narcissist’s Behaviors to Establish a Pattern
One of the most important actions you will take, is documenting every single violation. This will help you to establish that there is a clear pattern of disregard for rules and laws.
Further, as you document each violation, make sure to note how that violation is affecting the child(ren)’s wellbeing.
Share Everything With Your Attorney
Your attorney is your voice in the family court system.
As you carefully and consistently document the narcissist’s violations, be sure to share your documentation and your concerns with your attorney.
As your mouthpiece, your attorney can determine how and when to bring these issues to light.
How Should I Document Violations? What Exactly Should I Share With My Attorney?
When we dive into the world of documentation and communication with attorneys, there are usually lots of questions about what and how to document, and the best ways to communicate with attorneys so that you’ll get a timely response.
A documentation system that works for you is essential on the battlefield.
Certified High Conflict Divorce Coaches are professionally trained to help survivors develop sustainable documentation systems, learn how to communicate professionally and effectively with attorneys and other family court professionals, and deal with high conflict/narcissistic individuals in a strategic manner.
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